Sunday, March 21, 2010

Salome's bday party

This past weekend Jonathan and Leanne decided to visit us in Busan and celebrate Salome's birthday with all our friends.

We kicked the weekend off with a lovely brunch at old faith full - Thursday Party and then headed off for a quick shop and some mani's, pedi's and nail art. (Jonathan did the manly thing and stayed home and watched Top Gear)



After all the titivating we went to Ayuta, the awesome Indian Restaurant and met up with our friends for a jummy dinner!


















The cute dog I played with!!

Monday, March 15, 2010

V is for Vagina

14 March each year is Vagina Day. It is a global movement to end violence against women and girls that raises funds and awareness through benefit productions of Playwright/Founder Eve Ensler's award winning play The Vagina Monologues and other artistic works.

In 2009, more that 4000 V-day events took place in the U.S and around the world. To date, the V-day movement has raised over $70 million and educated millions about the issue of violence against women and the efforts to end it. V-Day generates broader attention for the fight to stop violence against women and girls, including rape, battery, incest, female genital mutilation (FGM) and sexual slavery.

I had the privilege to attend one of these productions last night. It was eye opening! You always know about these things and that they are happening, but you're never aware that they are happening around you in really close proximity. Korean women were tortured and forced into sex slaves during the WW2 where ships of soldiers would arrive daily and each women would have to 'service' about 50 men each day. They were fed rice and miso soup and were not allowed to wash, move around, use condoms, refuse or say 'leave me alone' or 'I don't want to'. To this day these women are looking for apologies from the Japanese Government and each Wednesday they go to the Japanese Embassy in Seoul in hope for an apology.


We can help women like these by getting involved! This year the focus was on the women of the DRC. Women all around Africa are still experiencing horrific acts like circumcision and the complete removal of their vagina's with glass shards, knives and rusted blades and live a very short, painful and emotionally 'fucked' live.

Congo is said to be the most dangerous place on earth for women and girls. Since 1996, sexual violence in the eastern Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC) has been used to torture and humiliate women and girls and destroy families. Hundreds of thousands of women and girls have been raped since the conflict began. In addition to the severe psychological impact, sexual violence leaves many survivors with genital lesions, traumatic fistulae, severed and broken limbs, unwanted pregnancies, and sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV. Survivors are regularly ostracized and abandoned by their families and communities.

One woman's story:
ZAMUDA
54 years old.5 militias Tutsi's and Mai Mai. I was naked in front of my kids. Her husband and children were killed in front of her. They beat her legs. She will never forget the feeling of the rifle inside her vagina. She has no kids to take care of her when she is old.

Look at a few of these facts:

47.9% of female sex workers in South Korea do not use condoms.

In Seoul, Korea, 22% of adult women said they had been the victims of rape and attempted rape.

In 2007, there were 1081 reported cases of sexual abuse against children in South Korea.

In Seoul, there are 42 348 male toilets compared to only 34 649 toilets for females.

90% of the women working as prostitutes in Korea are trafficked from Southeast Asian countries.

In a survey in South Africa, 25% of the young men admitted to having had sex with a woman without her consent, before he was 18 years of age (Human Rights Watch).

In the late nineties in South Africa, 40% of reported rapes and attempted rapes targeted girls younger than 17 years of age. (Human Rights Watch)

Philippines: An estimated 400,000 women in prostitution, a quarter of whom are children. 150,000 Filipina women have been trafficked into prostitution in Japan.

There are many more shocking statistics.

If you want to get involved, check out the website:

http://www.vday.org/about

Go to this website and read about what is happening around the world and how we can get involved to help and prevent violence against women and girls.

This shocked me to my core and I will do and try anything to help these ladies.

You can watch some of the Vagina Monologues posted on youtube:

http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=vagina+monologues&search_type=

Please, get involved!!

Thursday, March 11, 2010

What? Huh... How?

So on Wednesday morning I wake up to a call from Salome, even before my alarm went off for school. 06:57 am. As I was trying to get my voice to work she started shouting: Dude, open you window!!

You will never believe what I saw when I opened my window! S*N*O*W!! wtf?

view uit my venster

First of all, we live by the beach and as you know that's the last place it ever snows. Second of all, it's March and its Spring (supposedly). Third of all, it didn't snow in winter and last week the sun was still shining. Global Warming jou bitch!

Still, it was awesome! I immediately called the school and told them I wasn't going in and that I wanted to play in the snow - it never snows back home ... My school agreed! How sick is that? Anyways, so Salome and I ran around the block taking pictures of absolutely everything and trying really hard not to slip and land on our asses. At this point it was still snowing, so bad that it was hard keeping your eyes open. Not that we were complaining.






My paadjie skool toe

We decided to go onto the roof of our building and check out the scenery and see how much snow was gathered up there. When I got to the roof, the first thing I did was make a snow angel. There wasn't enough snow to actually do it, but I had fun!




We also tried to make a mini snow man and to attack people from the roof with snow balls. That didn't go as well.. :)

At that stage it was 9 o' clock in the morning and we were still busy trying to convince Salome's school to let her stay home. I made us a very big jummy Nus breakfast, consisting of bacon, mince, eggs, mushrooms, onions and toast with tomatoes. Normally after a breakfast like that, your hang over will be gone and it will be time for the best nap ever. Not this Wednesday! Salome's school finally agreed to let her stay home so after we got dressed we got on the subway towards the beach.




It was soooo cool! I never thought that I would actually see snow on a beach. It was ridiculous! The beach was the best spot for snowmen. The poor seagulls refused to fly and stayed in the 'waves' instead. The pigeons were braver and missioned around on the beach. We just finished our hot chocolates and decided to go see a movie at Lotte Cinema next to Shinsegae. We saw Alice in Wonderland in 3D! Johnny Depp I love you forever!

By the way, the sun is shining again ... (but it's still freezing!!)

Are you doing your part for the world? (Recycle or take part in Earth Hour, just do something!)